Showing posts with label Support Group. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Support Group. Show all posts

Saturday, August 8, 2009

New Attitude


So I said I might bring fibromyalgia back to the blog once in a while, well here it is. Yes I still have FM, yes I still have pain & fatigue and other symptoms but a lot has changed at the same time.
After not finding a medication that will work for me, just the occasional hydrocodone, which really doesn't relieve the FM pain just the other pains from arthritis, etc., I was partaking in many support groups both online and a local one here in Charlotte. I even started several groups myself, and my blog was solely about FM. I thought this is great to be able to share with other people who actually understand what I am going through and whom I can talk to. I thought this was very therapeutic until I noticed that my symptoms seemed to be getting progressively worse. I just blamed the FM as a progressive disease, which the doctors say is not. Well I decided to take a break from all of my FM groups and I stopped going to my local support group and something amazing happened--- I started feeling better! I have always believed that you take in the energy of what surrounds you, and if I am grouped with a bunch of people that are in constant misery, then I am going to feel it too, also being the somewhat empath that I am, I do feel what others feel. Oh I'm not cured, in fact I am in extreme pain right now as I type this, but yet I feel great! I know this can not make sense, but it does to me. I hate the pain, but I accept it and I have to live with it and I'm ok with that.
I haven't given up on my fibro friends who need my support, for them I will always be here, and I will always advocate for fibromyalgia awareness. I still drop in on my online groups about once a month to check in and say hi because I am still one of them-I just choose not to write about it everyday and about how life sucks and how I wish I would die-- No- I don't feel that way. Life is good! I am happy and fortunate to have what I have in this life and path that has been chosen for me.
The mind is amazing- creative visualization works- you have the power to control how you choose to feel.
BTW- I am also seeing a reflexologist who might have something to do with this change too but I think I need to take the credit for my mindset, because only I can control that.
Always smile, think positive, spread that positive energy to those around you- it is amazing what can happen.

Tuesday, March 31, 2009

Article About My Support Group



This article was printed in today's Charlotte Observer about my ME/CFS/FM Support Group. Luckily I am not in the picture but you can see my mom's right arm in the 2nd row on the far right-LOL.
This group has been very helpful to me and Dr. Lapp is an amazing doctor who is internationally recognized as one of the best FM doctors in the world.
Just so you know, the clutter question came from me since I noticed so many people wanted to clean areas, including me-My target was to work on clearing off a table in my office, 3 times a week, for 30 minutes. Well I haven't been able to start that one yet.
Anyway-here is the article:


Sick and tired finds company
By Karen Garlochkgarloch@charlotteobserver.com
Posted: Monday, Mar. 30, 2009

Dr. Charles Lapp leads a series of free classes at the Sharon Presbyterian Church in Charlotte for people with chronic fatigue syndrome & Fibromyalgia.


Most of the 15 people gathered for a support group this month did not look sick.
But when they began to talk about their common conditions, the list of symptoms went on and on.
Pain, fatigue, depression. Insomnia, nausea, headaches. Muscle spasms, ringing in the ears and sensitivity to heat, cold or light.
Dr. Charles Lapp has heard all of this before. He's medical director of the Hunter-Hopkins Center, a Charlotte clinic that focuses on patients with chronic fatigue syndrome and fibromyalgia. Many group members are his patients.
But instead of letting the support group descend into gloom and despair, Lapp tries to lead with hope and help.
He's currently offering a new series of free classes that help patients take back some control over their lives and better cope with the main symptoms: pain, fatigue and insomnia.
“They're all related to one another,” Lapp said. “If one gets worse, the others get worse. Conversely, if you treat one and it gets better, the others get better, too.”
Some 9 million U.S. adults suffer from chronic fatigue syndrome, but many go undiagnosed, according to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. Fibromyalgia affects as many as 6 million, says the CDC.
It's often difficult to distinguish between the two medical conditions. Some experts believe they are separate disorders. Others feel they are different facets of the same disorder. Pain is the primary symptom of fibromyalgia; fatigue is the main symptom in chronic fatigue syndrome.
The course Lapp is teaching was developed by Bruce Campbell, a California educator and psychologist who based the curriculum on his own experience in overcoming these often-misunderstood conditions.
Campbell's personal prescription involved “enforced rest” – setting limits and taking short rest periods every day – in addition to regular exercise, emotional support and medicine for symptom control.
“He was able to totally recover in five years,” Lapp said. “He can easily hike 10 to 15 miles, which is the envy of many patients with chronic fatigue syndrome and fibromyalgia.”
Clutter is common
At the recent support group meeting, Lapp asked the members – mostly women – to identify small, specific tasks they'd like to accomplish. Some mentioned the need to go to bed earlier or exercise regularly. Several wanted to organize their homes and get rid of clutter.
The clutter problem is almost universal with these patients, Lapp said. “They get so distracted that they start multiple projects, and the house ends up … a mess. It's overwhelming.”
As always, the group members offer ideas and support.
“Instead of trying to take on the whole room, maybe you could take on a table,” suggested Maggie Reed, 47, of Fort Mill.
“Or a corner of the table,” said Leslie Vann, 56, also from Fort Mill.
When Lapp asked for ideas on how to prevent fatigue and pain, suggestions included hot showers, massage, deep breathing and petting the dog.
Reed, who has suffered from chronic fatigue syndrome and fibromyalgia since 2006, said she visualizes a backyard pool and the landscaping she'd like to have around it to get her mind off pain or stress. “I go to what I call my ‘happy place,'” she said.
Kebbie Cannon, 45, of Waxhaw, who has had chronic fatigue syndrome for 22 years, said she tries not to get too cold because that causes her muscles to tense up in pain.
To the contrary, Reed said she works to avoid getting too hot. “I start to feel like I'm suffocating.” Several in the room said they also have trouble with heat.
Reed almost cried for joy when she heard that. Until she made these friends, she felt lonely and misunderstood.
Reed was a data analyst at Transamerica in Charlotte before going on medical disability last summer. “It just got harder and harder for me to continue working,” she said.
Having worked since she was 17, it's hard to be at home, “barely able to do a load of wash” or take care of her 13-year-old daughter. Because she doesn't look sick, she says other people view her skeptically. “I look fine, and I'm a large woman. You're automatically perceived as being fat and lazy. There's tremendous guilt and isolation,” Reed said.
The support group helps. “You can get together and make friends and say ‘I can't do it today,' and they understand,” Reed said. “We've had to create our own community because we're the only ones who understand what we're going through.”

What is chronic fatigue syndrome?
In the mid-1980s, chronic fatigue syndrome was first identified as a cluster of symptoms in clusters of patients in a few spots in the United States. Dr. Charles Lapp, then a family physician in Raleigh, identified one such outbreak among all the members of the N.C. Symphony Orchestra. Seven remained ill with chronic fatigue.
“Patients started coming to me with persistent flu-like symptoms,” said Lapp, now medical director of Hunter-Hopkins Center in Charlotte. “They would
work one day and have to sleep for two. Perfectly well-adjusted people became disabled almost overnight.”
By the time Lapp notified the federal Centers for Disease Control and Prevention about his findings, the agency had heard similar stories from Lake Tahoe and Rochester, N.Y.
At first, because the illness seemed to strike middle-income, well-educated people, it got tagged with the name “Yuppie Flu.” Patients hated that because they thought it made light of their conditions. In time, researchers confirmed the syndrome was real, and it was given more respectful names – chronic fatigue syndrome, chronic fatigue and immune dysfunction syndrome, or myalgic encephalopathy.
Experts initially believed the syndrome was caused by a virus or retrovirus. But that proved wrong, and later research looked at immune system abnormalities. The most recent focus is on the central nervous system and the body's metabolic system, Lapp said.
Researchers in Spain and England have shown that certain genes in patients with CFS and fibromyalgia are turned off and on differently than those in healthy people, Lapp said. A blood test was recently patented but is not available commercially, he said.
The cause is unknown, and there's no cure.
About 70 percent of people who have chronic fatigue syndrome also have fibromyalgia, and vice versa. It's often difficult to distinguish between the two. Although fibromyalgia is not a new syndrome, it was officially defined by the American College of
Rheumatology in 1990 as chronic widespread pain (at least three months duration) associated with at least 11 of 18 pressure points on the body. Like CFS, it can be extremely debilitating and interfere with basic daily activities.
Insurance coverage for chronic fatigue syndrome and fibromyalgia is sporadic, Lapp said. “In our practice, 30 percent of patients get full reimbursement, 30 percent get partial, and the rest get minimal.”
Karen Garloch

Monday, February 23, 2009

It's Been Awhile


It's been a long time since I've been on here. No excuses, just lack of motivation and my fibro has still been pretty bad. It seems to be getting worse. I started going to a support group here in Charlotte for people with CFS & FM. They meet once a month and currently there is a Dr. teaching a course on how to manage your FM on your own. It is very informative and makes a lot of sense. One of the things though is limiting and pacing yourself, and I am still having trouble doing this. I know that I can't do things like I did before but when I am doing something I still do it like I did before and then I pay for it afterward by having a major flare up. I guess I realized that I haven't completely accepted this and still think that I am normal. When I am having a good day I figure I can do anything.
I also finally finished my SS disability application. They are already processing it-we'll see what comes from that.
I have been having a lot of trouble with my arms and at this moment I am having a hard time typing this for the pain so I am going to end this for now but hopefully I can continue to write when I can.